Victim Blaming Is Your Punishment For Surviving And My Pep Talk To You To Put Yourself First

When you have survived domestic violence or any kind of abuse many people do not want to hear your story because it makes them face what they have done to others or been complicit in themselves. They would prefer your silence. This is me acknowledging that they didn't hear you because they didn't want to do anything to help you or hold the other person who harmed you accountable. But we are still here. And we will not be quiet. I also spend time sharing with you guys this episode why having children without a marriage is detrimental to your wellbeing as a woman and encourage YOU to put YOURSELF first. You matter as who you already are before what you give to a man and society.